Num 6:22-27; Gal 4:4-7; Lk 2:16-21
The first month of the year is named after the Roman god Janus, the deity with two faces, one looking to the past and the other looking to the future. The first day or days of January is a time to look back at the year that has just ended and to look forward to the New Year ahead of us. In relation to this, many of us, got used to making New Year's resolutions -- promises that we often make every New Year with the intention of breaking bad habits and becoming better persons.
The first month of the year is named after the Roman god Janus, the deity with two faces, one looking to the past and the other looking to the future. The first day or days of January is a time to look back at the year that has just ended and to look forward to the New Year ahead of us. In relation to this, many of us, got used to making New Year's resolutions -- promises that we often make every New Year with the intention of breaking bad habits and becoming better persons.
It was the great Socrates who
says, “The unexamined life is not worth living.” A person’s life is only
meaningful when it is regularly examined with the purpose of growing towards
maturity in all of life’s dimensions. We have to review our lives from year to
year in order to set our goals and resolutions for the years ahead. Actually,
we are encouraged to examine and plan our life on a daily basis. However, every
New Year is a special opportunity to scrutinize more deeply our life – to
humbly recognize mistakes and failures and to find ways and means to make
reparations, to grow and become better persons.
The examination/planning must
be done prayerfully and holistically. It has to include our physical,
psychological, emotional and spiritual dimensions. We need to check the amount
of effort and time we invested for a particular task. How did we manage our
time considering the demands of work, family, friends and community and the
demands of our spiritual life? Some of us might have invested much time and
effort to advance in business or carrier to the neglect of one’s time for the
family. Others may have given much time and energy to fulfill one’s obligation
to the community but have taken the self for granted. We need to remind
ourselves that the important thing in life is not excellence but balance. A
mature or a holy person is one who has enough time for self, others, nature and
for God.
The first day of the year is
the solemnity of the Blessed Virgin Mary, Mother of God. This is a fitting
reminder that we have to live our life as disciples of Jesus under the guidance
and protection of Mary, our Mother.
During her lifetime on earth,
Mary had experienced life’s joys and sorrows. There were times when she was
deeply troubled and there were events that she could hardly accept and
understand. Nevertheless, from the mystery of the annunciation to the
suffering, death and resurrection of her Son, Mary had developed a habit of
treasuring and pondering things in her heart.
She pondered the word of God in order to discern what God was saying to
her at every event and circumstance of her life.
All of us are called to
follow the example of the Blessed Mother. God continues to speak to us through
the Word of the Bible, the teaching of the Catholic Church, as well as through
our daily experiences in life. Like Mary, we need to give time to reflect on
our personal experiences and to see in them God’s will in our lives. What does
God want me to see in the painful experience of losing a loved one? What does
God want me to learn from my broken marriage? What does God want me to do now
that I am losing my business or carrier? If we are able to reflect prayerfully,
we surely will find answers that could give us interior joy and peace.
The prayer of Thomas Merton
is meaningful for this time of the year:
My Lord God, I have no idea
where I am going. I do not see the road ahead of me. I cannot know for certain where
I will end. Nor do I really know myself, and the fact that I think I am
following your will does not mean that I am actually doing so.
But I believe that the desire
to please you does in fact please you. And I hope that I have that desire in
all that I am doing. I hope that I will never do anything apart from that
desire. And I know that if I do this you will lead me by the right road though
I may know nothing about it.
Therefore will I trust you
always though I may seem to be lost and in the shadow of death. I will not
fear, for you are with me, and will never leave me to face my perils alone.